My experience in Nepal has been made truly unique and meaningful because of the poeple. It is incredibly touching to see the dedication and hard work that the Nepali people put into their businesses, families and religion. Though Nepal is still a developing country in many ways, and does not have many of the luxuries that we have access to in Canada, the people have a sense of comraderie and community that is something I feel very privileged to have lived in for the last 5 weeks.
While studying at the hospital, there was hardly a single patient who did not have multiple members of their family present. They played in major role in giving personal care to their loved ones and were loving and non-judgemental towards them. They gave their money, time, energy and whatever else it took to help get their parents, their children and their brothers and sisters well. There is one man that had had a hemmorhagic stroke and he had been in the hospital for 4 weeks already. He was trying to pull out his tubes and catheter and he could not recognize his family. Every day his sons were there, reassuring him, feeding him and caring for him. Working at the hospital showed me just how strong and important families are in Nepal. The Nepali people have many amazing qualities. I have learned so much here and I hope to return someday.
Melissa Nuttall
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The most memorable experience thus far in Nepal was my decision to bungee
jump off the second highest bridge in the world. I signed the waiver form
and was told that I would bungee jump the following day. I woke up the
next morning in a panic going between thoughts of I just want to get this
over with, to what was I thinking when I signed up for this. After the
first group had jumped we walked over the bridge and the reality of my
decision hit me like a Nepali bus whistling down the road. I looked down
and saw how high up we were, and how far down the rapids were flowing with
sharp jagged rocks exposed everywhere! My number was called to jump and I
felt as though I had just been called to death row. All harnessed up, I
tip toed to the plank and thought there is no way I am doing this! The
longer I stood there, the worse my conscious mind became but I still took
the plunge. I felt as though I had lost all control and I felt weightless.
After all of that worrying and build up, I felt absolutely nothing, until
I recoiled and felt pure bliss that I was still alive. It was almost as if
my body had went into shock mode, until it had realized that it was
attached to a rope and everything was going to be okay. I've never felt so
many emotions as I did when I deiced to leave my fate in the fraying
strands of a bungee rope. I had to find the strength within to throw
myself off that bridge and I was so glad that I went through with it.
After all of that, I can truly say that it was worth it. I've officially
crossed bungee jumping off my bucket list, never having to put myself
through that again!
"Always expect the unexpected", Dianne told us back in Victoria. Now I
really understand what she was talking about. My greatest fear in the
hospital was to come in contact with poop and pee (I can barely pick up my
dog's poo when she does her business). Lucky for me I got the poo and pee
introduction before setting foot in the hospital. On the first day in the
Kathmandu one of the Monks lead us on a nice walk to Thamel. As we were
walking down a busy street with motorcycles, cars, bicycles and people
going in all directions, I felt a nice stream of, what I thought was
water, on my head and arm. I turned and looked up and there were two
little boys giggling while taking a pee on me as if I was their walking
target. We got quite the laugh out of it but it was nothing compared to
what happened next. After that occurrence we gathered ourselves and had
lunch at the Himalayan Café. It was quite good; we all ate Nepali dishes
such as Alu Roti, Dal Bhat, Vegetable Thukpa and especially MoMo's. We
were all exhausted after and had decided that we need to head back to the
Monastery and catch up on sleep and still adjust to the altitude. Once
again I had another surprise ahead of me. The taxi that we caught pulled
over to the side of the street of a small market area filled with locals.
We thanked the driver many times and I took my first step into knee deep
fecal matter. That was when I learned that Nepal has open sewage
everywhere. The cab pulled away and there I was standing in the middle of
the street with one leg fully covered in human feces. The noise in the air
switched from dogs barking and cars honking to full on laughter. I felt
really embarrassed at the time and could not believe what had just
happened. After that I have learned you can only take life one minute at a
time. I have changed in the way that I really can not predict what is in
store for me in the future.